Greetings dear brothers and sisters in Christ. Today, I will share with you what happens when God says yes to a relationship to help you know if the person you are dating is right for you.
Many signs will show if the person you want to marry while courting is God’s will for your life and this is what we will briefly discuss today.
God saying yes to a person you want to marry is one of the greatest moments of joy you will ever have in your life especially if you are single and have been praying for a life partner for a while.
With that said, let’s look at the 7 things that happen when God says yes to a relationship that will lead to a godly marriage eventually.
7 Signs God Is Saying Yes To A Relationship.
1. You Feel Inner Peace.
When God says yes to your relationship and approves that the person you want to marry is the one God meant for you, there is that unexplainable inner peace you will have in your heart.
You will not have any second thoughts, doubts, and a troubled mind when God has approved the person you want to marry. In short, everything will just feel right when you are with the person you want to spend the rest of your life with.
On the other hand, if the person you intend to marry isn’t the person God wants you to be, there is just that troubled spirit you will have whenever you are with this person. Something just won’t feel right being with this person.
God will never allow you to be at peace with the person He’s never meant for you no matter how beautiful or handsome that person may be.
This is why you see seemingly good relationships on the outside end up in a breakup at times because the people involved in those relationships weren’t right for each other.
2. Conformation From God’s Voice.
Another thing that will happen when God gives a stamp of approval for your relationship to proceed to the next stage of becoming a marriage, you will hear a confirmation of God’s voice in your heart and spirit.
When the Lord reveals to you the one, you will hear a very still inner voice of God confirming indeed that this person is bones of your bones and flesh of your flesh as Adam wonderfully put it in Genesis 2:23.
Otherwise, you won’t hear this still inner voice of God if the person you are courting or want to marry according to your fleshly desires isn’t the one.
Sadly, even when many people hear God’s voice that the person they want to marry isn’t the one for them, they go ahead and ignore God’s warning.
This explains why many Christians are in miserable marriages today due to their disobedience and lack of proper discernment. Don’t be that person, please.
3. Everything Feels Right Being With This Person.
The other thing that will happen when God approves your relationship is everything will just feel right being around this person God wants you to spend the rest of your life with no strange feelings of doubt if the person is the one or not.
This will be so, especially if the person you intend to marry and share the same faith with is a godly man and godly woman who’s truly born again and understands what true love is all about.
However, if the person you are courting isn’t the person the Lord wants you to be with, something for some strange reason won’t feel right being with this person you consider your future wife or husband.
Yes, things may look good on the outside. You may even have good chemistry but something deep down in your heart will just keep you from taking the next step in your romantic relationship with this person.
You must remember, just because you like someone doesn’t automatically mean they are a good fit for you to be your life partner to share and spend the rest of your life with.
4. Unexplainable Love.
When God reveals to you the right person to marry by saying yes to your relationship with the person you want to marry, there is this deep unexplainable Christ-like love you will have that you have never had with anyone else.
It will be a special and intimate love that you will have that you have never had or experienced with anyone else even the closest and best friends you have ever had in your life.
Sadly, many mistake lust for love these days. Just because you have strong feelings for someone, doesn’t mean you are truly in love with them as feelings come and go.
No wonder these types of feelings are called crushes and nothing more. However, if the love you have for this person is from God, it will be more than transient feelings.
The love you will have for the one will be the genuine and surficial love 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 talks about that seeks to serve rather than being served.
Check: 7 Clear Signs That Agape Love Is Present In Your Relationship.
5. There Will Be A Heart Agreement.
When God gives you a green light to your relationship which you hope to turn into a marriage, there will be a heart agreement between both parties involved.
Implying that the hearts of two people man and woman in a romantic relationship will be in harmony and agreement with each other that both of you, lovebirds are meant for each other and that nothing can separate the two of you.
There is a special way your heart will connect with the person the Lord Jesus Christ wants you to be with so that in the end His name is glorified in your relationship and future marriage.
Moreover, if the person you are courting or dating, isn’t the one the Lord ordained for you, this heart agreement between the two of you will be nowhere to be seen.
Rather, your heart won’t just be at peace being with this person who isn’t right for you even if everything appears perfect on the outside without any major issues relationship-wise.
Check: 7 Sure Signs God Is Putting A Person In Your Heart To Marry.
6. Shared Spiritual Goals.
A relationship that God has blessed and approved will exhibit a mutual desire to grow in faith, and spiritually, and live according to God’s principles.
If you are both Christians, you will both desire to grow together and have the same spiritual goals as a Christian couple as you look forward to marriage.
When you share the same spiritual goals with your godly partner, it’s easier to build a strong relationship rooted in love, patience, and understanding.
Your unity in Christ will strengthen you, especially in difficult times, and encourage both of you as a couple not to give up on each other due to the unified divine purpose you have.
Having shared faith and spiritual goals will ensure that both of you are growing closer to God, which will draw you closer to each other even more.
7. Aligned Life Paths And Purpose.
Lastly, God will often confirm a relationship through alignment in the life paths of both individuals involved. This will be the case for you as well if you are in the right relationship
When you and your partner’s visions for the future are aligned whether it’s in family, ministry, career, or other life ambitions, it’s a strong indication that God is at work in your relationship.
Remember, God is not a God of confusion, and He delights in orderliness and purpose even in relationships. When two people come together and their callings harmonize, it’s a sign that their union is meant to serve a greater purpose.
If that’s the case in your relationship and you feel that the partner you are dating or courting is aligned with God’s purpose for your life, it shows your relationship can proceed to the next stage.
Otherwise, if that’s not the case then your relationship is not ordained by God and you better break off the relationship which is just wasting your time and a distraction from Satan.
Check: 7 Easy Ways Of Knowing God’s Will In Your Relationship.
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Conclusion.
I hope the above 7 signs that happen when God says yes to a relationship you may be in will now help you find a suitable mate God wants you to be that won’t bring misery in your life.
Let what you have just read in this post help you choose your life partner wisely and be patient if you don’t want to make a mistake in this crucial area of your life as many have.
In closing, if this post has been of great help to you, share your thoughts in the comments below, and don’t forget to share before you leave. Stay blessed.
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