Are you a single Christian woman looking forward to being a loving Christian wife in a Christian marriage and wondering if God is preparing you to be a godly wife?
If so, then this post on the 7 sure signs God is truly preparing you to be a wife will help you know for sure that you are now ready for marriage life.
With that aside, let’s quickly dive into the 7 signs God is preparing you to be a godly wife that will help you know that now is the right time to marry and desire a godly husband.
7 Signs God Is Prepping You To Be A Wife.
Below are the 7 clear signs that will indicate you are now ready for a godly marriage as God prepares you to be a wife in the background.
- Maturity All-Round.
- Desire To Settle Down.
- Desire For A Godly Husband.
- Desire To Have A Godly Family.
- Deep Love For Your Future Husband.
- Godly Character.
- You’ll Look Forward To Being A Wife.
1. Maturity All-Round.
One of the first signs that will indicate God is truly preparing you to be a Christian wife in holy matrimony is you will notice that you are fully maturing in all areas of your life.
This will show especially in the way you will start viewing marriage relationships which you will do in a godly way as you will begin to understand the main purpose of a Christian marriage.
Other areas of maturity you will notice in your life will be the spiritual area where as you desire to marry, your ultimate goal will be to glorify God in your marriage and nothing less.
You will also mature emotionally and intellectually which will be of great help to you in the future when it comes to handling marital conflicts with your husband in a godly manner when you marry.
As God matures you to be a wife, all the childish behavior and thinking you once had concerning marriage relationships will slowly disappear and be replaced with mature godly behavior and character.
2. Desire To Settle Down.
As a Christian woman who’s in your singleness and looking forward to being married, I am sure you can attest to the above point on desiring to settle down when the right time comes to do so.
If you are in such a season as a single Christian lady, if it’s the right time, God will put a genuine godly desire in your heart to settle down and finally have a godly family of your own you want to pour your love into.
This is especially true if you were once a party girl who loved partying and going out with friends all the time in your early 20s which is the case if you are young and naive.
Now that you are approaching your late 20s to early 30s, you will gradually begin to see a paradigm shift in your life toward wanting to settle down and have a family.
No longer will you be interested in partying and going out with friends all the time as you earlier did. Now, all that will be in your heart is settling down, living a slow life, and wanting to start a family in no time.
3. Desire For A Godly Husband.
It’s just a matter of fact that if God is prepping you to be a wife in a biblical marriage as a godly woman still in your singlehood, you will desire to have a godly husband.
And this is a good thing. As a single Christian lady who’s at a stage in life where you desire to have a godly man, don’t be tempted to date or court a man who’s not godly and doesn’t share your faith.
Doing so will just set you up for a lifetime of marital misery which isn’t God’s will for you as He wants you to have a happy and healthy Christian marriage where you will be loved and cherished as a wife.
If you are being led by the Lord truly, you will only desire to marry a godly husband which must be your daily prayer if you are at this crucial stage in life where you desire a life partner to start a family with.
I encourage you to delight in the Lord (Psalms 37:4). If you do so by letting His will prevail during this season, you will be blessed with a godly husband to start a godly family with your heart has always deeply desired.
Check: 7 Vital Characteristics Every Godly Husband Must Have.
4. Desire To Have A Godly Family.
In addition to desiring to have a godly husband as the time slowly comes, you will also begin to desire to start and have a godly family with a godly man you want God to bring your way.
If you are such a Christian woman earnestly desiring a godly family and godly children, I pray that the Lord grants your heart desires as soon as possible as you genuinely delight in Him.
All God is asking you during this season is patience and trusting His timing. I am saying this because this is the time many desperate Christian ladies wanting to marry soon fumble.
Even as you desire to start a godly family, don’t let desperation make you throw yourself in the hands of a godless man who’s not God’s will for you just because you want a family as soon as possible.
Let God guide you during this crucial season to the right godly man suitable to start a godly family with as you can’t have a godly family with a man who is ungodly in the first place.
5. Deep Love For Your Future Husband.
As God readies you to be a godly wife in your future marriage, you will also have this new selfless desire to love, honor, and respect your future husband in holy matrimony.
This will also show during your dating and courtship period in your Christian relationship which is something you need to learn to cultivate early on as a young Christian lady.
As you know Ephesians 5:22-33 tells wives to love, honor, submit, and revere their husbands which will be the case with you if God is preparing you to be a Christian wife your husband will delight in.
Never mind what modern-day feminism has lied to women including many so-called Christian women who now think loving, submitting, and serving their husbands in love is slavery.
I hope and pray you aren’t in such a category of rebellious women with a Jezebel spirit. If you are one, repent and ask God to give you a new gentle and quiet spirit 1 Peter 3:4 talks about that will make you a pleasant wife in marriage.
Check: 7 Signs Of True Agape Love In A Relationship.
6. Godly Character.
Having a godly character that characterizes a Christian wife in marriage will also be another sign that indicates God is preparing you to be a wife of noble character in marriage who will be a blessing to your husband.
As you may well know, having a godly character is crucial for every marriage to succeed. Without godly character, the likelihood of you having a successful godly marriage drastically reduces.
Godly character on your part as a Christian woman is what will enable you to love, honor, and revere your husband in marriage and not be disrespectful to him (Proverbs 31:1-0).
Lack of godly character is the reason why many so-called Christian women are having issues in their marriages by not submitting and respecting their husbands as they are expected to.
You need to understand that what makes you beautiful as a godly woman isn’t your outward beauty but your inner godly character and gentle spirit. Those two things are what will keep your marriage.
Check: 15 Traits All Godly Wives Must Have Without Fail.
7. You’ll Look Forward To Being A Wife.
Last but not least, if God is preparing you to be a wife, you will also have a genuine desire to be a godly wife to a godly husband you will desire to love and serve.
As time goes by, you will just notice the Lord putting a strong desire in your heart to have a husband you want to share and spend the rest of your life with in old age.
You will just find yourself dreaming about that wedding with your dream man you want to marry and you just can’t wait for that moment to finally come to pass.
If you are at a point in life where you strongly desire to be a wife, I pray the Lord grants your heart desires as soon as possible as you patiently wait on Him.
Even if you strongly desire to be a wife don’t make the foolish mistakes many desperate women have made by trying to rush things and are now suffering in their marriages. Always remember God’s timing is the best.
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Conclusion.
These are all the 7 signs God is truly preparing you to be a wife I had to share with you in this post and I hope you have found value in them as you look forward to getting married.
Always remember to be patient and ask Jesus Christ to lead you to the right person to marry so that you don’t marry a prayer point as patience pays in this crucial area of life.
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