Are you a young godly woman wondering if a godly man is truly pursuing you to marry you in holy matrimony?
Then this post on the 10 signs a godly man is pursuing you will be of great help to you which will help you know if a godly man is truly pursuing you or just playing emotional mind games.
Without wasting your precious time, let’s discuss the 10 clear signs a godly man is pursuing you showing he intends to marry you as the love of his life in a godly marriage.
10 Signs A Godly Man Is Chasing You.
Take your time to read the 10 signs below that will show a godly man is truly pursuing you with the ultimate goal of marrying you.
- He’s Really Into You.
- You’ll Start Having Frequent Talks.
- He Wants You To Serve God Together.
- He’s Open With You.
- Desire To Spend More Time With You.
- Marriage Talks Will Become More Frequent.
- Willing To Love You Selflessly.
- He Looks Forward To Being Your Husband.
- You Become His Priority.
- Wants You To Do The Right Thing.
1. He’s Really Into You.
One of the first signs you will notice if a man is truly pursuing you as a young single Christian woman looking forward to being a Christian wife in a Christian marriage is he’ll be really into you.
This implies that a godly man who is truly pursuing you will have great interest in you as he will desire to spend more time with you and have many discussions about your future life together as you date.
Conversely, if a man isn’t truly pursuing you, he won’t be that much into you and you will notice that from the onset. If that’s the case, move on, and don’t waste your time being with a man who’s not interested in you at all.
2. You’ll Start Having Frequent Talks.
The second sign you will notice if a godly man is pursuing you is that you will frequently start having serious talks on vital life issues such as marriage, finances, future plans, etc.
If this happens as you date, it shows the man is truly interested in you and wants you to be his future wife he wants to have a godly family with.
On the other hand, if a man or guy isn’t truly pursuing you during dating or courtship, you won’t have any serious talks frequently and will come up with all manner of excuses as to why you aren’t talking.
3. He Wants You To Serve God Together.
Thirdly, a Christian man who’s truly in pursuit of you will want you to serve God with him while in a godly relationship as you date each other for marriage.
If that’s the case, you will find that he will desire to read God’s word and pray together with you in open places, especially during courtship for obvious reasons.
On the contrary, a man who’s not pursuing you as his prize will not desire to serve God and pray with you. Instead, he will only desire to selfishly use you to satisfy his fleshly lusts like what Amnon did to Tamar in 2 Samuel 13:1-16.
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4. He’s Open With You.
A godly man who’s truly pursuing you will also be open about you on many things he’s not willing to be open to with other people. He will share secrets with you he’s not shared with anyone.
Secondly, a man who’s really into you will also be willing to have open and honest conversations on serious topics such as having a family, or children during your dating period.
A man who is not interested in you and pursuing you seriously, will not be open with you and willing to have honest conversations with you on serious topics as your relationship gets serious.
5. Desire To Spend More Time With You.
It’s just a matter of fact that if a godly man is truly pursuing you, he will desire to spend more time with you to get to know you better especially if he sees you as a potential wife material.
This is especially true during dating as you will notice that the man can’t wait to be with you and you will spend endless hours together chatting and discussing your future plans together as a couple.
If a man or Christian guy isn’t pursuing you seriously, he won’t see any reason to spend quality time with you to get to know you better as you aren’t his priority in his mind.
6. Marriage Talks Will Become More Frequent.
Another sign you will notice that a Christian guy is truly pursuing you during dating or courtship as a single Christian lady is you will notice marriage talks getting more frequent and serious.
You need to remember that a serious purpose-driven man has no time to waste. This is why if a serious man is pursuing you, he will frequently talk about you marrying him as soon as possible.
Every time you meet, you will find yourselves talking about marriage which will dominate your conversation in your relationship. Conversely, if a man isn’t serious with you, serious marriage talks will be put on the back burner.
7. Willing To Love You Selflessly.
If a man is truly pursuing you in the Lord, he will selflessly love you and lay down his life for you just as you are willing to do the same for him in a healthy Christian relationship.
The love we are talking about here isn’t the selfish false love based on lustful passions which just lead to sexual promiscuity. Here, we are talking about the true love a godly man will have for making him desire to marry you.
Otherwise, if a man isn’t truly pursuing you, he won’t be deeply in love with you during dating in your relationship. He will make it clear he’s not interested and willing to be in a committed relationship with you.
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8. He Looks Forward To Being Your Husband.
A man who is truly into you will also desire to be your husband as soon as possible and selflessly love and cherish you the way Jesus Christ loved His church by sacrificing for it (Ephesians 5:25).
If a man isn’t truly pursuing you, he won’t desire to be your husband or be in a serious committed relationship with you and would rather do friends with benefits with you.
As a Christian lady, you must not think of even doing that. If you choose to date a man, do so to get married. Otherwise, don’t be with a man who only wants marriage benefits without a ring.
9. You Become His Priority.
Being his priority will be another sign that a Christian man is truly pursuing you intending to marry you in the future.
A man who truly values you will prioritize you above everything else and will desire to spend more time with you rather than being on social media and playing mind games with you.
If you are not a priority to any man, you are nothing but a placeholder and an afterthought to him. This is why a guy who’s not into you will date you but also date other women.
10. Wants You To Do The Right Thing.
Last but not least, if a man of integrity is pursuing you, he will want you to do the right thing and please the Lord even as you date in your relationship and encourage you to put God first.
He will not want you to do wrong things such as having sex outside marriage, drinking, drug abuse, and many other things that will ruin your life.
If you are with such a godly man, don’t hesitate to marry him and be thankful to the Lord for that man as they are rare. Most men just want you to sleep with them, then dup you. Guard yourself against such carnal men.
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Conclusion.
These are all the 10 signs a godly man is pursuing you I had to share with you in this post and I hope you found value in them so that you can vet the right man to marry properly.
As a single Christian woman, I encourage you to pray for God to reveal to you the right person to marry if you are at a stage in life where you desire a life partner so that you marry right.
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