7 Ways God Brings A Man And A Woman Together In Marriage

In this post, you are going to find out the 7 major ways God brings a man and a woman together who are truly meant for each other.

By the end of this post, you will know how God will bring you together if you are truly meant for each other from eternity past to help you know if you are with the right person.

Without wasting much of your precious time, let’s look at the 7 main ways God brings a man and a woman together for marriage who are meant for each other. Let’s dive in.

7 Ways God Brings A Man And Woman Together.

Below are the 5 major ways God will bring a man and woman together if they are meant for each other and in line with God’s will and purpose for their lives.

  • Through Deep Agape Love.
  • Through Divine Revelation.
  • Through A Deeper Friendship & Togetherness.
  • Through The Right Timing.
  • Through Unity Of Purpose.
  • Through Godly Counselors.
  • Through Divine Appointments.

1. Through Deep Agape Love.

One of the first ways God will bring a man and woman together is via the deep Christ-like selfless agape love 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 talks about the Christian couple will have for each other.

If the man or woman you want to marry is the one God meant for you, there is that deep unexplainable love you will have for that person that you have never had before with anyone including your dearest friends or parents.

Yes, that’s true indeed as God expects you to love your wife or husband more than anyone else including your biological parents and marriage is a very sacred union in God’s sight.

It’s why Hebrews 13:4 tells us in the new testament that marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled. It’s also why Genesis 2:24 in the old testament tells that a man must live with his mother or father and cleave to his wife to be one flesh.

On the other hand, if the man or woman you are considering to be your future spouse isn’t from God, this deep love for this person will be nowhere to be seen in your life or relationship and it’s just a matter of time before you break up.

Recommended: 5 Signs Of Agape Love In A Relationship (Based On Christ).

2. Through Divine Revelation.

The second way God will bring a man and woman meant for each other is via divine revelations such are dreams or visions of the person God has revealed to you to marry.

Yes, God will at times give you a divine revelation and a vision of a person He wants you to marry and when you come together as a godly couple in a godly relationship, it will just feel right to be together.

I am sure that some of you who may be reading this, have experienced this or are experiencing this right now where God revealed to you in a vision that this is the man or woman He wants you to marry as husband and wife.

However, you also need to be aware that Satan, too can give you false visions of the person you should marry as a way of deceiving you and leading you away from the right spouse God meant for you.

Moreover, the easiest way to know if the vision you are receiving of wanting to marry a particular person is from the Lord is that there will be a confirmation with God’s word as God can’t lead you to may a person outside His will.

Recommended: 5 Things That Happen When God Says Yes To A Relationship.

3. Through A Deeper Friendship & Togetherness.

The third way God brings a man and woman together in a marriage relationship is first through a deep friendship by allowing the couple to get to know each other first.

There is a saying that says you first need to build a friendship with the person you intend to marry so that you can build a deeper intimate bond that will last a lifetime. Otherwise, how can you know if the person you consider marrying is the one for you if you are strangers?

You need to understand that couples that begin building a friendship first during courtship are the ones who stay together and enjoy each other’s company for a lifetime.

One of the reasons why many couples feel that they are strangers even if they live in the same house is because they never built that real intimate friendship, to begin with, to help them be close together.

Instead, they rushed things and were not patient to take their time getting to know the person they considered marrying if it was the person they could be lifelong friends with as married couples without getting bored of each other or growing apart.

4. Through The Right Timing.

The fourth way God brings a man and woman together who are right for each other for a marriage relationship is through the right timing as God beautifies all things in His time as Ecclesiastes 3:11 tells us even when it comes to marriage.

You need to understand that when it comes to marriage, it’s vital to be patient and wait upon our Lord Jesus Christ to reveal to you through His gentle sweet voice the person He wants you to marry.

And the Lord is too faithful to give you a Lemon in terms of the future wife or husband you deeply desire to marry deep down in your heart. The life partner God will give you will not be a person who will bring misery in your life or be abusive to you in any way.

The reason why many have ended up with spouses God never meant for them in the first place and are suffering now is impatience and listening to their fleshly desires instead of God’s gentle and still voice of who to and not to marry.

Remember, God’s timing is always the best when it comes to marriage because when the timing is right, both of you will know that this is God’s doing and you will have real inner peace when you are together and that you are meant for each other.

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5. Through Unity Of Purpose.

Also, God will use the unity of purpose between a man and a woman to bring them together in a marriage relationship and union.

So, if you are a Christian woman or a Christian man looking for a person to marry, you first need to find out what brings you together and the purpose God has for you as a couple.

Without, this unity of purpose, you will never have a happy and fulfilling marriage the Lord intended for you and you marriage relationship you have will not mean much to you as it will be void of purpose.

You need to understand that as a man looking for a godly wife to marry, your purpose comes first before any woman you may be considering to marry as  purpose is what you bind and keep you together till death do you part.

Without purpose, your marriage will be like most purposeless marriages out there of which most end up in divorce or separation as the people involved didn’t understand the purpose of their marriage union.

6. Through Godly Counselors.

Another way God will bring a man and woman together who are considering marriage is through a godly counselor who will be able to advise them if there is a good fit for each other.

Having a godly counselor who can advise you on relationship and marriage matters is crucial if don’t want to marry wrongly or end up in a miserable marriage.

This is because mature godly counselors can objectively tell you the concerns they may have about the person you are considering marrying that you may not notice due to you being blinded by love or your immaturity.

One of the concerns your godly counselor may bring to your attention could be potential red flags they may notice in you’re the person you are dating or courting that may have slipped under your radar.

It’s why you need to inform your pastor or your church elder when you decide to be in courtship with the person you consider your future spouse so that they can counsel you accordingly so that you don’t make costly marriage mistakes many make in this area.

7. Through Divine Appointments.

Last but not least, another common way God will bring a man and woman together in marriage is via divine appointments. God is the only one who’s a perfect matchmaker and He knows how to bring two love birds who are meant for each or regardless of distance.

If the time is right to meet the right person God meant for you to spend the rest of your life with, you will be at exactly the right place at the right time where you will meet your future wife or future husband.

This is why it pays to wait upon the Lord if you want the best He has to offer in the area of marriage. I can guarantee you that if you do that, you won’t marry wrongly.

Instead, you as a married couple married in accordance with God’s will and purpose for your lives will live happily ever after for the rest of your life until death separates you.

Moreover, if the time for you to marry hasn’t yet come, any person that presents himself or herself to you for a committed relationship just won’t feel right to be in a relationship with at the time.


I hope the above post on 7 ways God brings a man and a woman together in marriage meant for each other has now made you understand how God reveals the right person for you to marry.

Never allow the flesh to make you make costly marriage decisions you will regret later. Let the Lord lead you to the person to marry if you want to marry right.

In closing, if this post was of great help to you in this vital area of marriage, drop a comment below, and don’t forget to share before you leave. God bless.

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